I’ll walk you through the 7 Foolproof steps to make him miss you madly or that are necessary to make a man miss you in this article. A profound need for emotional or physical intimacy that you’re not currently experiencing is expressed when you miss someone. You might be in a relationship where you don’t feel appreciated, or perhaps you’re in a long-distance relationship and want to spend more time with your partner. Alternatively, you can want to patch up a relationship after a recent argument or split. Whatever the circumstance, following these seven methods will unquestionably get his attention and heighten his desire for you.
Here are 7 Steps to make a man miss you Madly.
No. 1: Give him something to miss.
Picture this: You’re sitting on the edge of your seat, ready to embark on a journey to capture the heart of the person you desire most. It may sound absurd, but trust me, it’s the secret ingredient to winning his affection. You must become the person he yearns to be with, the one who sets his world ablaze with an intensity no one else can match. Leave him breathless and wanting more. You hold the key to his cravings and desires. It’s you and only you who can fulfill them. Your task is to create an irresistible dynamic—a feeling that he simply cannot find elsewhere. Every thought about you should be intertwined with excitement and joy. You want him to associate you with a whirlwind of fun and exhilaration.
Now, here’s the first rule: never directly express how much you miss him or share your longing for his presence. Don’t let him believe you’ve become overly attached or needy. Instead, leave him wondering if he’s the one you truly miss. Let him be the one scouring through videos like this, seeking guidance. Keep things light and enjoyable, even if deep down you’re disappointed by his lack of reciprocation. Conceal that disappointment and maintain an air of lightheartedness and carefree spirit, consistently. Radiate an aura of confidence, never revealing any frustration or insecurity about the future of your connection.
I know these suggestions aren’t groundbreaking revelations, but why do they still prove challenging for some? Well, they often feel counterintuitive and carry an inherent risk. I can already hear the objections and excuses flooding in. “If I’m not available, he’ll find someone else. If I’m not responsive, he’ll seek out someone who is. If I don’t return his calls promptly, he might think I’m not interested. If I appear less invested, he’ll lose interest or find someone more enthusiastic.”
Yes, every one of these feels like a gamble. You fear the worst outcome—that he’ll gradually lose interest. You worry that it won’t work and convince yourself that being authentic is the way to go. But let me tell you, all these excuses stem from the fear of rejection. As I’ve emphasized in my other article, conquering your fear of rejection is the single most crucial step in enhancing the quality of your relationship. Overcome the dread of the relationship ending, and embrace the belief that if it’s meant to be, it will be. If you’re truly compatible, things will naturally fall into place. Rejection doesn’t define your worth; it merely indicates that this particular person is not the right match for you, plain and simple.
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No.2: When you’re spending time with him, make sure to establish a deep emotional bond that transcends the surface level.
Create an environment where he feels comfortable sharing his innermost thoughts and feelings. Remember a moment when you and your partner felt an incredible closeness, a time when you could confide in each other without fear of judgment. That profound connection is what we all crave, and it thrives in an atmosphere of safety. We open up when we feel secure, and we take emotional risks when we feel supported.
So, it’s crucial to provide him with a safe space to express himself freely and authentically. Be the person who accepts him unconditionally, showing care and compassion. When he experiences this emotional intimacy with you, he will undoubtedly miss it when he feels disconnected. Your goal is for him to yearn for your presence, to feel a sense of longing.
Loneliness is the ache in our hearts when we desire intimacy and connection but find no one available or willing to reciprocate. You want him to yearn for the emotional closeness that only you can provide.
No. 3: Prioritize your needs and put yourself first.
Sometimes, people go out of their way to show the person they’re dating how much they like them, and in doing so, they feel like they don’t want to disappoint them. They jump at every opportunity to talk, to hang out, to text, and usually, that’s a good thing. But not if you’re trying to pique his interest, trying to get him to miss you more.
In this case, you need to take the attention off of him and put it back on yourself. Take care of yourself first. Pick up some hobbies, make and keep plans with your friends, and fill up your social calendar. And when he calls last minute to make plans, oops sorry, I have plans. That will make him prioritize and plan his time with you.
No. 4: Stop initiating communications.
When you miss someone, it’s hard to not reach out to that person because you want to be connected and communicate. But if you want a man to really miss you, you must pull away. So, do not initiate calls or texts to him. Eventually, he will recognize a difference and wonder why you’ve suddenly gone silent on him.
Let him feel a little down and realize he was happier when things were different. Your silence will speak volumes, and he will usually initiate contact again pretty quickly. Oh, and make him wait before you return his calls and texts.
Look, I understand the urge to respond immediately, especially if you’ve been waiting to hear from him for a while. Taking some time before responding to his context sends a message that you are busy and not just sitting by your phone, waiting for him to reach out. Have patience and take your time before responding. Doing so will certainly increase his yearning for you.
Sometimes, you can use social media to your advantage by indirectly showing him that you have an independent, full, and fun life apart from him. So, let him see this new independent “you” via social media, whether you’re out to dinner with friends or attending a rock concert. Take fun photos and share them on social media.
Don’t fabricate elaborate and fake posts. Be you, be fun, and be authentic. He will want to be by your side for every new adventure. Guys want to make sure that you have a life outside of them, and what better way to show him than by sharing your adventures with him indirectly?
So, use your social media to update everyone on the fun you’re having, and this will definitely cause him to pay attention. Okay, now we’re getting to the most important ones, so keep watching because these are more impactful.
No. 6: Be a little bit mysterious.
That means you don’t have to share every detail of your daily activities with him. You don’t need to overexplain every little thing that you’re doing. You want him to wonder and develop intrigue. So, share bits and pieces of your life slowly and make him earn your trust. So, when you’re going out to dinner with your parents, tell him you’re going out to dinner.
You don’t have to tell him you’re going with your parents unless he asks. When you have plans with friends and he asks you on a date at the last minute, tell him you have plans with friends. You don’t have to go above and beyond to make him feel at ease about what you’re doing.
Remember, you want him to appreciate you and your time, and you want him to remember your value as a friend. So, let him wonder, and if he needs to ask, let him do that too.
No. 7: Start saying no.
In other words, don’t always be available for him by always saying yes when he calls and asks you to go out, especially if he’s calling on short notice. Saying no to his request for plans sends him the message that you have other engagements or commitments that are taking priority, at least at this time when he’s asking.
It also forces him to recognize that he must make advanced plans because you have other things going on, and you’re not just sitting by the phone waiting for his calls. He will also begin to recognize that he does not get the privilege of calling you and asking you to go out when he feels the whim.
He has to earn back that high-priority status. So, make other plans, and he will start to remember how you used to be available for him, but now you’ve moved on and you’re keeping busy. Oh, and I’m not suggesting that you play games and hide behind the phone. Go out with your friends and have fun away from your man.
Do something for yourself, take up a new hobby, or do something that you enjoy. Remember, being unavailable some of the time is going to make you feel better while driving him a little crazy. Look, if a relationship is meant to be, if he is the person for you, if you are really that compatible, then implementing these suggestions will certainly make him miss you more. That’s for sure.
But if it’s not right, if he’s not the right one for you, if there are too many differences, or if he’s not the committing type, nothing you can do will change that outcome. It just won’t work, and that’s okay.
These tips may seem pretty easy, but you need to stick to them and be disciplined. Don’t give in to the temptation of answering his calls or texts too fast, even if you’ve been dating for years. Put in some effort, and you’ll have him missing you and wanting you more. So, have I missed any good suggestions for making a man miss you?
Have you tried any of these suggestions before?
How did they work?
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